OK so for my own personal knowledge...since theres like 5 different things going on in this thread lol...
If i switch the relay to Euro-spec: Fog lights can be turned on willy nilly, no headlights on, lows on, highs (which is 4 bulbs on vs 2 for 94.5+..i own a 93 as well). However, if i turn the headlight switch to the middle part(parking lights), the lights will stay on with the car off...and you can have fogs on now too. I dont ever do this, and im curious when you ever even need to do this? lol...my 93 doesn't do it, but i noticed the 96 does...so w/e..i never use the PL setting... Its either headlights on, or headlights off...except maybe at dawn/dusk time?
So in my case, lets say no headlights on, driving with just fogs on (and since im now euro spec) i turn my car off , and the fogs turn off with it correct?
case #2 - i drive up in my car, with the brights on(should be the same with lowbeams), and the fogs on, being illegal(not that i care...i know 6 bulbs is illegal ) in the US, but im 'offroad' so don't care

I turn my car off, all 6 bulbs turn off, even though i left the fog light switch on.
case #3 which is relevant to the poster i suppose, is i drive up with my parking lights on, and my fogs on. Parking lights stay on with the car off and keys out of the ignition, and thus allows the fogs to stay on. To correct this, i would do a seperate relay ( go buy a car audio one..stinger sells a 80AMP one which is MORE then enough..i run it on my 93 and its great), hook up the power to the relay to run through this seperate relay, and have this only work with the car on. You could even do the parking lots this way, and not have to do much modding, just run the main power to these relays through it...connect ignition to the stinger relay ( i tapped into car radio for my car audio obv, but you can use the cig lighter) and viola...turn car off, no way the fogs can stay on...be impossibleyyy
Sorry for long post..i'm sure you could do it with the stock relay as well and if you find out..lemme know =P i don't ever use the parking lights like i stated, but in the instance i do, id rather my fogs not be on with it hah