Ghost Shadow Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 Applied for my concealed weapons permit a few weeks ago and the letter finally came today. My wife gets it and opened it already before i got home. I feel she has the right to open it BUT should have respected my privacy and let me open it first then i tell her about it. what would you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Young Burnsy Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 I agree. If it has YOUR name it's your business only.I mean what if it was a letter from your Taiwanese mistress? :rolleyes: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost Shadow Posted October 15, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 I agree. If it has YOUR name it's your business only.I mean what if it was a letter from your Taiwanese mistress? sheit, cna't do that stuff when i have a habit of talking in my sleep. my wife tested me by asking me for my dad's birthday when i was sleeping. I NEVER EVER TOLD HER THE DATE!!!! crazy huh? she'd get info out of me then i'd be in the dog house! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudge_Brownie Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 Tell her with your gun.Eh, she took the excitement out of opening it. I should mention I'm probably too young to listen to, but I think you're married. Who gives a shit? Your life is now hers and vise-versa. If you have a problem with it, just ask her not to do it in the future? Of course be prepped for the fight on how she thinks you're seeing other people :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boost_Junky Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 My wife and I had the same talk. I told her I would appreciate it if she let me open my own mail. She asked me what I had to hide. I told her that I was screwing her sister and she mails me nudes. My wife no longer opens my mail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Canadianplat855 Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 Shouldn't of married your mom! JK. I would open her mail and see if she says anything about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilled man Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 Agreed married who cares . The person who gets the mail opens the mail. Although my wife is kinda banned from getting the mail since she has a tendecey to hide it no on purpose and then I cant find it and then theres bills that need to be paid that dont ...............End of story shes banned from getting the mailed. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DonutsDemise Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 she would have found out sooner or laterbut i agree the excitement is gone so it would have been better if she asked, oh well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost Shadow Posted October 15, 2008 Author Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 Tell her with your gun.Eh, she took the excitement out of opening it. I should mention I'm probably too young to listen to, but I think you're married. Who gives a shit? Your life is now hers and vise-versa. If you have a problem with it, just ask her not to do it in the future? Of course be prepped for the fight on how she thinks you're seeing other people yeah that's kinda it, no excitement. she actually walked in a few minutes ago and confronted me with the "if you have no problem with me opening it then why you giving me attitude about it?" i told her she can continue to open everything but i was expecting this letter and wanted to be the one opening it!! i know we married and all but hey there's that excitement when you are looking towards something.eh...marriage is not all that bad.....bump in the road..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DonutsDemise Posted October 15, 2008 Report Share Posted October 15, 2008 yeah that's kinda it, no excitement. she actually walked in a few minutes ago and confronted me with the "if you have no problem with me opening it then why you giving me attitude about it?" i told her she can continue to open everything but i was expecting this letter and wanted to be the one opening it!! i know we married and all but hey there's that excitement when you are looking towards something.eh...marriage is not all that bad.....bump in the road.....get her to buy you some scratch-offs to make up for it :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryan850-t5 Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 eh, its marriage. "whats yours is mine" kinda thing. i would say in the future if your expecting something in the mail that your looking forward too let her know and im sure shell keep it a secret :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Betty Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 I had the same thing happen with my parents I told them multiple times not to open my grades for school i would open them in front of them but i wanted to open it myself. Yet they would always open it for me then call me and tell me. Same things with AP scores. Finally what pissed me off the most was college acceptance letters. I didn't get to open a single one. My mom was the one always opening the letters and she never saw why i got so mad when she opened them. It wasn't like i was even there to even see her open the letter. I got to hear by text message or phone. I never even read any of the letters because it took all of the enjoyment out of it. My mom still to this day doesn't know why I got so upset, but she admits she opened her college acceptance letters with her parents there and got the satisfaction of reading the letters Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flyfishing3 Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 i've had the conversation and i go the other way. If it has my name on it. do not open it period.if its something we're waiting for and its addressed to me, she'll call and ask first.i have a seperate checking account she has no access to, when the statement comes she doesn't open it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gmsgltr Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 I guess im too young but I wouldnt care about my GF getting any of my mail unless it was somehting I was doing for her. She already knows I get playboy. Im not quite married yet either haha im 19... so my situation is different... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turbomoose Posted October 16, 2008 Report Share Posted October 16, 2008 I'm on the out in the open and honest policy. Everything is disclosed, there is TRUST, understanding. If you've got to hide something, or are uncomfortable about possibly being "exposed" in any way, maybe you shouldn't be married, since you're not a trusting complete union. For me, if there's no trust, if there's no open honesty about everything, I'd rather be single. ...But that's just me and my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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