rodrigo Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 So, a while back I met this girl. I go to this quiet European-type bar to get expresso almost everyday, and the first I time i saw her, which was the first day she started working there, I couldn't keep the eyes off her. So we eventually, over the course of a few days , begin talking, ad talking some more, and we eventuall yplan on going some place to hang out for a quick drink and lunch. So the more I talk to her the more I am hooked on her. We have, surprisingly, a lot of stuff in common, and things are progressing as they 'should' despite her not liking the wagon too much. So last weekend we spend the day in NYC...Museums and dinner in Astoria. Everything goes well...then she tells me: " Yeah, I have to go back home in March...I moved heaven and earth to get 3 months off from work, and I can't really stay any longer..."In two months she's gone... ...Just venting since I can't get the situation out of my headI will also post another pic...some of you may have already seen it: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the underlørd Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 quickie marriage and divorce FTW! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Che'_Moderator Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 Two months is a long time. Use it. You would be foolish not to. If you still sure shes the one follow her back for some time. See how you function in her world. If you still think she is the one make up your mind then... not now. Its not where your from its where ya at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodrigo Posted January 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 It was quite shocking when she told me, but I think I kept inside pretty well.quickie marriage and divorce FTW!Sorry, Kev...can't say I'm with you on this one.Two months is a long time. Use it. You would be foolish not to. If you still sure shes the one follow her back for some time. See how you function in her world. If you still think she is the one make up your mind then... not now. Its not where your from its where ya at.Yeah...I am going to try and make use on the 2 months left without seeming overburdening. I am super busy with frreelence projects and regular work, but I will have to deal, as I do not come accross someone like this very often. As far as following her back...not sure how I would do in Lima (Peru). Wnder if there is a lot of Architecture there... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fastboy Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 convince her to stay, just try and see, unless you want one of those super long distance relationships.... they do work, my wife lived in Spain and I was here... she moved back here and we got marriedPS.... Mr. admin sir, I love Chunk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Che'_Moderator Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 Oh oh an area I actually know something about. For love or money! The classic opt if money..... I had the same problem in '98. I'll give you a hint. I'm alone and she now makes over 400k a year ><convince her to stay, just try and see, unless you want one of those super long distance relationships.... they do work, my wife lived in Spain and I was here... she moved back here and we got marriedBOOOOO!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the underlørd Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 well, what is she thinking? have you talked? does she want to go back? can she work here? so many questions! remember... everytime you meet someone new, and they're all great and wonderful, and smell of fresh flowers... and you make all these knee jerk life decisions, because you're all high on her... things rarely work out that way./cynic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodrigo Posted January 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 never did the long distance thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
javadoc Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 I think Chuck's right. Two months is a while, see how things are progressing. Where's she from, anyway? LD relationships can work if you're committed to them, if she goes back to her home-country and you stay here.Another question you gotta ask, does she know how you feel about her, and does she feel the same? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodrigo Posted January 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 well, what is she thinking? have you talked? does she want to go back? can she work here? so many questions! remember... everytime you meet someone new, and they're all great and wonderful, and smell of fresh flowers... and you make all these knee jerk life decisions, because you're all high on her... things rarely work out that way./cynic.I agree with you on that...it is new, and it does smell of fresh flowers ( ), and I probably am high on it, but I think it is because I see my chances of it as fairing pretty well...it's one of those things where I wish I had more time to know about her and then be able to make a decision...but I do still have 2 months to gather some sort of conclusion.You so shed reality on the light, however. This is why I posted...all opinions (within reason) are welcome.Thanks Kev. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the underlørd Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 Thanks Kev.any time R man.I find that sometimes its not neccesarliy advice that people need, just the opportunity to talk about it, or share. volvospeed is in the trust tree. no wrong thoughts here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Che'_Moderator Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 Keep in mind whenever one door closes another opens..... I dont belive that shit. Kick in the doors you want into and gorilla your way up in there if you want it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodrigo Posted January 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 I think Chuck's right. Two months is a while, see how things are progressing. Where's she from, anyway? LD relationships can work if you're committed to them, if she goes back to her home-country and you stay here.Another question you gotta ask, does she know how you feel about her, and does she feel the same?She is from Lima..in Peru. I have not yet told her how I feel, but there have been implications. She does look to eventually come to NY and seek employment...and I look to move back to Portugal and start a business... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fastboy Posted January 27, 2006 Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 Oh oh an area I actually know something about. For love or money! The classic opt if money..... I had the same problem in '98. I'll give you a hint. I'm alone and she now makes over 400k a year ><BOOOOO!!!!!!booooooo you! you'll always have Volvo.. I'm not sure if that's a good thingIt worked out for me, but I had gotten to know him over a few years. It was right for me.Where is she from? Portugal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rodrigo Posted January 27, 2006 Author Report Share Posted January 27, 2006 ...lots of things would have to come together...and quickly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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